Souls as one

Bird's Dinner of yong tau foo

Bee's supper + dessert!

I just thought it would be interesting to remember this moment. We both had a long Sunday afternoon snooze since we didn't sleep for the whole Saturday night. Decides sometimes we should let each other enjoy some "solitude" time to get in touch with ourselves, our inner self, to reflect or simply to just be alone. Aloneness is an essential in many ways, especially in relationship. It gives the time and space to reflect, rejuvenate or simply be ignited by a new awareness:) Aloneness can bring people closer at hearts, which is very very Very Important! People are in contact with almost everyone they know most of the time, thanks to all the social networking widgets. It's nice to stay connected but guess it's also important to stay connected beyond these widgets and really get in touch with each other's soul. 

I love how Bird and Bee can be on our own, doing our own things, yet still feel our souls connected as one. An occasional texts along each of our own journey teaches us the magic of connection which is essential in a relationship with anyone; 

1. In many occasions, I have seen couples who deem texting each other as a must do thing or an extra thing to do when they are together long enough. However, being together long doesnt mean no need for communication. I personally appreciate little texts of greetings or simply someone sending me a text asking how am I.. It really is the thought that counts. Reach out to someone to let them know you care, you are with them even if you are not physically beside. It means a great lot!

2. It's not about reporting to each other. It's a little thing we can do to show we are in touch. 

3. We can be apart and together at the same time. 

4. We are never really apart when we are souls as one.

oh and one more lesson learnt; being apart gives us time and space to appreciate and enjoy each other's differences. Bee and Bird are kind of the same and different at the same time. Bird is an Owl, a solitary Bird who enjoy being in stillness Bee being a Bee, is quite a buzzing character who enjoy buzzing around with chains of activities. So how does the Bird and Bee travel together. We complement quite well! Bird calm Bee down into some quietness and reflective mood. Bee sparks Bird into life! haha or so I think! hehe get it moving moving. hehe

I love us:)

We were having our dinner and supper seperately but it feels so together too. 

I love you Bird:) 

*I'm so grateful to have you in my life*