Friends are the family we choose for ourselves

so.."how does Seahorse and Owl travel together"- a question asked by black bear some time ago..
makes me laugh so much...
so months later..here's seahorse missing black bear's quirky jokes that doesnt seems meant to be jokes but makes me laugh so much...
It makes me feel kind of sad to watch people feeling sad and bitter yet there is nothing you can do.. but at least I'm glad I didn't wait too long to visit Black bear and speak to her..on my feelings and of course bring her a little momento hopefully to let her know..I really do consider as a big part of my other family (which at least I choose to believe it is a family)
What happened happens...there is nothing we can do..but we can change our perspective of it and choose how we think about it.
People may be indispensable.. but relationship is not.
Every relationship with people..is part of our life..no matter how long it is, how happy or sad it ends up to be.. no relationship can be totally forgotten.
"What could a mother do to make a son unable to forgive...
What could a son do to make the mother unable to forgive"
This is how I felt so strongly about..if love is the key..if all these years isnt just about work..but a family.. then how could anyone not forgive someone in the family..
Holding grudges in a family usually just leads to unhappiness..
What's the point..
when we could just look beyond the circumstances..and feel the lights shining upon us.
I love this quote "Friends are the family we choose for ourselves"